Thursday, February 16, 2006
I Love You....LoVe
What is Love? How it happens? Love can come from different way like family, friends, stranger, and of cos your love one. But today the love I mentioned here is more related to your love one.
Can you survive without love? Wat happen if you love someone but he/she doesn't? Are you wrong to love someone that doesn't love you back? Can you let go easily if you break up with the one you love before? Can you be frend with the one that u broke up with?
Recently...ppl around me tends to have this LOVE problem.
- There are some getting hurt by the one they love.
- There are some who initiate the broke up but can't really let go and suffer from it
- Some who hurt the one they love either obviously / silently
- Some who is being love by someone that he don't love
- Some singles who struggle looking for their love one
- Some who fall in love with married ppl
- Some who dare not fall in love due to past experience
- Some in the mid of recovering
- Some who being third party...and many more..
Love is very funny cause it can make u feel happy till you can't sleep but it also can make u cried till you can't sleep. Some even commit suicide becos of LOVE. Some become enemy because their love can't last forever...and etc.
I have taste love before and I know how sweet n sour it taste. My first ex did give me a phobia to fall in love again. Last time I use to think that love is very sweet and happy but my ex have shown me the dark side of love. You can become very unhappy, stressful, upset because the relationship din turn out right. I choose to give up on this relationship even we have try to get together for 3 times. No doubt the first 2 times I do feel very sad n cried so much...but the 3rd time I really feel that it is a release...instead of something else. I have another 2 relationship after that but it din really last.
I use to think that LOVE is crucial but recently I think single life is more suitable for me. I believe beside falling in love there is something more important which we can do. No doubt some ppl need love badly to survive...but I am glad with my status now..where I got frends & family that care for me is more than enough.
I understand that when you love someone that don't love you, no matter how much u do n care it won't change the end result. What I choose is to let go..i bet it makes both to have the "Release" feeling.
Love is suppose to be happy n warm therefore if you know that a person don't love u anymore...what you need to do is juz let go..that is a better way and it shorten your suffer.
Received a call from my supplier...actually din really chat with her about personal things last time but that day when she call I did chat with her a bit more and found out that she is single and she don't really trust relationship cause some of her friends is in the mid of divorcing. Maybe we have seen too much and heard too much..till PHOBIA did arrive and it make us difficult to trust LOVE.
Some ppl tell me whatever man's said you only trust 10%...haha..is it true?
I knew some married ppl who fling. I did ask them why? They say just for fun...I told them do you know how hurt was that if your love one knew abt it. He say it will not happen and so forth. But the funny thing is that they told me I still love my wife..haha..really dun understand...u know this will hurt them but yet u still carry on!!!
There is a lot of different type of ppl in this world!!...who can really loyal to one person forever without fling?? i bet is a bit hard to find in this generation. But whatever is it...if you need love you have to be brave to take up this challenge and you must be strong enough to accept whatever the end result, is either sweet n lovely or sour n sad...
I will not crave for love anymore...I believe when it comes it comes...I have given a try at least...GOOD LUCK to ppl out there!!!
Can you survive without love? Wat happen if you love someone but he/she doesn't? Are you wrong to love someone that doesn't love you back? Can you let go easily if you break up with the one you love before? Can you be frend with the one that u broke up with?
Recently...ppl around me tends to have this LOVE problem.
- There are some getting hurt by the one they love.
- There are some who initiate the broke up but can't really let go and suffer from it
- Some who hurt the one they love either obviously / silently
- Some who is being love by someone that he don't love
- Some singles who struggle looking for their love one
- Some who fall in love with married ppl
- Some who dare not fall in love due to past experience
- Some in the mid of recovering
- Some who being third party...and many more..
Love is very funny cause it can make u feel happy till you can't sleep but it also can make u cried till you can't sleep. Some even commit suicide becos of LOVE. Some become enemy because their love can't last forever...and etc.
I have taste love before and I know how sweet n sour it taste. My first ex did give me a phobia to fall in love again. Last time I use to think that love is very sweet and happy but my ex have shown me the dark side of love. You can become very unhappy, stressful, upset because the relationship din turn out right. I choose to give up on this relationship even we have try to get together for 3 times. No doubt the first 2 times I do feel very sad n cried so much...but the 3rd time I really feel that it is a release...instead of something else. I have another 2 relationship after that but it din really last.
I use to think that LOVE is crucial but recently I think single life is more suitable for me. I believe beside falling in love there is something more important which we can do. No doubt some ppl need love badly to survive...but I am glad with my status now..where I got frends & family that care for me is more than enough.
I understand that when you love someone that don't love you, no matter how much u do n care it won't change the end result. What I choose is to let go..i bet it makes both to have the "Release" feeling.
Love is suppose to be happy n warm therefore if you know that a person don't love u anymore...what you need to do is juz let go..that is a better way and it shorten your suffer.
Received a call from my supplier...actually din really chat with her about personal things last time but that day when she call I did chat with her a bit more and found out that she is single and she don't really trust relationship cause some of her friends is in the mid of divorcing. Maybe we have seen too much and heard too much..till PHOBIA did arrive and it make us difficult to trust LOVE.
Some ppl tell me whatever man's said you only trust 10%...haha..is it true?
I knew some married ppl who fling. I did ask them why? They say just for fun...I told them do you know how hurt was that if your love one knew abt it. He say it will not happen and so forth. But the funny thing is that they told me I still love my wife..haha..really dun understand...u know this will hurt them but yet u still carry on!!!
There is a lot of different type of ppl in this world!!...who can really loyal to one person forever without fling?? i bet is a bit hard to find in this generation. But whatever is it...if you need love you have to be brave to take up this challenge and you must be strong enough to accept whatever the end result, is either sweet n lovely or sour n sad...
I will not crave for love anymore...I believe when it comes it comes...I have given a try at least...GOOD LUCK to ppl out there!!!