Monday, January 09, 2006
Who are you?...A Routine?
Stranger, Fren, Buddy, Lover, Enemy….a lot more…
How many categories are there?
What are the criteria of each category?
How and why are you being classified into that category?
Each person is able to carry more than one category and is depend on how ppls classify you. Everyone have their own set of criteria for each category.
STranger … appear everywhere…do you classified your net friend as a stranger? You can anyhow chat with them, cos you carry no responsibilities on what you are chatting since you think that they are stranger to you … are you gonna to tell the truth or a lie to them?
After you have met them in person, do they still a stranger to you? Will they be promoted into other category?
What are the criteria to be a friend? Some can easily be friend with anyone and vice versa. From a stranger, a person can be promoted to be your friend if they met your set of criteria of a FRIEND. Friends also can be break into few categories if a person want to. How are friend suppose to be? What n how you make yourself to be other ppls friend?
What is a buddy to you? In what situation you think this person can be your buddy? Do you expect something from your buddy? Obviously a buddy is someone that you like to liaise, you trust them and you would like to share more detail information about yourself with them. You will be more willing to help them, care about them and pay more attention to them. In return do you expect your buddy treat u the same? Do you expect your buddy to offer help whenever you need?
“What if one day you have a big fight OR you found out that you dislike something about your buddy OR your buddy din treat you as what you expect OR suddenly you think you buddy does not click with you anymore, what will you do?”
Are you still gonna to accept them as your buddy? OR
Will you slowly downgrade them back to a normal friend or other categories?
NO DOUBT everyone have certain aspect and expectation from another person how much they can fulfill is really up to you to tolerate. Going thru the process of friendship / relationship is never an easy task.
As for me, I have limited number of buddies, quite a fair bit of god brother n sister n friends, a bunch of net friends….and a number of enemies. Frankly speaking the one, who know me as a whole, is a person that I never met before. Sound strange? Our friendship is better than a real friend. I dunno how it happen to be in that way..but I am really glad to have this buddy. I hope this can last forever…but will it be .. no one knows…
Some friendship is everlasting because you don’t deal with them too often and vice versa. Can everyone accept their friends / buddy / lover as a whole …. it means their goods and of cos as well as their bads … if one party don’t tolerate will this friendship or relationship last?
This issue is always hard to come out with a standard conclusion cos it varies between individuals. No one is PERFECT….TOLERATE, FORGIVENESS, ACCEPTANCE…is the key issue to make thing last n better….how much can you do this…..
I just know that everyone carry more than one category … I can be a friends, buddy or enemy to ppl out there…I know I can’t make everyone happy cos I dun have the responsibility…I just know I have to make sure myself happy and responsible of what I am doing and no regret of what I done or decide…..ALWAYS HAPPY is my key point to live..so I will make sure…I am HAPPY…trying my best to keep that up….!!!!!!
How many categories are there?
What are the criteria of each category?
How and why are you being classified into that category?
Each person is able to carry more than one category and is depend on how ppls classify you. Everyone have their own set of criteria for each category.
STranger … appear everywhere…do you classified your net friend as a stranger? You can anyhow chat with them, cos you carry no responsibilities on what you are chatting since you think that they are stranger to you … are you gonna to tell the truth or a lie to them?
After you have met them in person, do they still a stranger to you? Will they be promoted into other category?
What are the criteria to be a friend? Some can easily be friend with anyone and vice versa. From a stranger, a person can be promoted to be your friend if they met your set of criteria of a FRIEND. Friends also can be break into few categories if a person want to. How are friend suppose to be? What n how you make yourself to be other ppls friend?
What is a buddy to you? In what situation you think this person can be your buddy? Do you expect something from your buddy? Obviously a buddy is someone that you like to liaise, you trust them and you would like to share more detail information about yourself with them. You will be more willing to help them, care about them and pay more attention to them. In return do you expect your buddy treat u the same? Do you expect your buddy to offer help whenever you need?
“What if one day you have a big fight OR you found out that you dislike something about your buddy OR your buddy din treat you as what you expect OR suddenly you think you buddy does not click with you anymore, what will you do?”
Are you still gonna to accept them as your buddy? OR
Will you slowly downgrade them back to a normal friend or other categories?
NO DOUBT everyone have certain aspect and expectation from another person how much they can fulfill is really up to you to tolerate. Going thru the process of friendship / relationship is never an easy task.
As for me, I have limited number of buddies, quite a fair bit of god brother n sister n friends, a bunch of net friends….and a number of enemies. Frankly speaking the one, who know me as a whole, is a person that I never met before. Sound strange? Our friendship is better than a real friend. I dunno how it happen to be in that way..but I am really glad to have this buddy. I hope this can last forever…but will it be .. no one knows…
Some friendship is everlasting because you don’t deal with them too often and vice versa. Can everyone accept their friends / buddy / lover as a whole …. it means their goods and of cos as well as their bads … if one party don’t tolerate will this friendship or relationship last?
This issue is always hard to come out with a standard conclusion cos it varies between individuals. No one is PERFECT….TOLERATE, FORGIVENESS, ACCEPTANCE…is the key issue to make thing last n better….how much can you do this…..
I just know that everyone carry more than one category … I can be a friends, buddy or enemy to ppl out there…I know I can’t make everyone happy cos I dun have the responsibility…I just know I have to make sure myself happy and responsible of what I am doing and no regret of what I done or decide…..ALWAYS HAPPY is my key point to live..so I will make sure…I am HAPPY…trying my best to keep that up….!!!!!!
# posted by Little Devil76 : 10:13 PM
